dash lights and park lights problems **Sigh**

[adamsaiyad]

Been at it for about like 4 hours now.
My dash lights stopped working today.
My Park lights dont come on at all... Only if i use the park Switch on the dash and push the button they come on but still no dash.

So when i activate the Lights on knob... click i hear the relay clicking at the bottom near the fuses.
Then engage the actual lights click under the bonnet and they come on.
I have tried to short out the reostat switch....
This probllem started after fitting the radio.
Checked all fuses still no joy
Havent shorted out pins 1 and 9 but would this sort out my problem of no rear park lights.
If i use the P switch front and rear parks are on but no dash.
Tried playing with dimmer no differnence?
Bottom relay by my feet is clicking there is a 12 volt coming in on 1 pin the other two are dead which i think is correct.
So what could it be waiting for my number plates then i can start driving her worst part is i think they are out tomorrow and with out dash and parks i cant drive at night.
Please help guys ?